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Question General ratings/awareness tags?

9 years 1 week ago #1 by Kristin Darken
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  • Someone made a comment over on BCTS about the possibility of "All the Kings Horses" maybe being of concern for those with PTSD issues. While the post was couched in some generally anti-Crystal Hall language, about how we don't handle unregistered comments, etc... I think the actual concern merits a little discussion and a decision.

    For the most part, we have always operated under the principle that we write within a pretty specific genre and only rarely do we reach far enough outside our normal styles and plot lines that we need the sort of warning signs a site that will post anything from children's stories to hardcore smut might require.The one or two times we have stepped outside that line, we've ensured there are disclaimers ("Tennyo Goes to Hell" being an example). So... the question on the floor is... do we feel that there is merit in setting up a system of tags by which stories can be marked to give a reader advance warning of potential trigger conditions. And, if so... what exactly constitutes the conditions that we consider far enough outside of business as usual that we need to tag it?

    To use "All the Kings Horses" as the case in point, as it was the story that resulted in the comment... what specifically do we look at in this story as triggering? How is it, in relation to the prior story "Odds and Ends", a problem... both stories are full of active paranormal combat scenes. So we post for violence/PTSD trigger in every story that has a fight in it? Isn't that overkill when you consider that super powered battles are inherently violent but just as inherently a part of the genre. If that sort of fighting doesn't appeal, you simply don't read comics. Or by extension, super hero stories.

    It isn't difficult for me to generate tags for this purpose. It WILL be pretty time consuming to make the entire story collection 'compliant' to a standard if we set one (though it isn't a task that 'has' to be done by me). But the tags will only really be valuable if everyone uses them and that requires everyone to understand and agree on the point at which they are necessary. And, ideally, I can set them up in a way that they don't act as a spoiler for stories...

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    9 years 1 week ago #2 by E M Pisek
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  • I'm going to step on this landmine and I'm sure I'll trigger some responses from my own view.

    There comes a time when it may be warranted. Its the landmine of who decides that 'when'. If any the story of 'All the Kings men...' is past it.

    In my view the one possibly facing PTSD is in the story itself. I'm not saying that it may trigger someone who reads it, but there is also Kayda's story line as with several others that could trigger others deep rooted fears.

    You've had rape stories posted here and for some its made even the authors question the level they went.

    This site from what I understand is a set universe in that it deals with a certain type of people and is also viewed as a closed universe in that only those invited to write in will do so. This is not a curtsy universe. Its already harsh in so many levels by design.

    If anything I would say have a warning on the main page or over the story pages themselves in that some stories may cause others to feel uncomfortable if read.

    The flip side is what it does to the writers themselves. It may curtail that thinking process of how deep they want to go into the story itself. Will they be unwilling to pull the punches that they feel are necessary. Most of theses stories go through a process of being looked over.

    I can honestly say you don't allow gratuitous smut or harsh action without purpose as all the writers are taking their skills to higher levels.

    Reading a story here is not like buying a book or electronic one either. Its done for free with the willingness of the readers giving feedback.

    Also at what point to you go into detail of the rating system and how? There is no perfect solution only a solution that can be used and there will still be those that don't like it as it doesn't go deep enough for them.

    "This triggered that, I wasn't expecting this, What were you trying to prove I want cutsey I want tame. I want I want I want." Till you end up driving readers away.

    I'm sorry if I sound harsh. But sometimes we lose ourselves to were we end up hurting the writing.

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    9 years 1 week ago #3 by Morpheus
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  • Tags can be useful in helping to determine whether we want to read or avoid a specific story, but I sometimes avoid using tags that could be spoilers to a story, unless they are general like 'Caution: Violence' or 'Explicit Sex'.

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    9 years 1 week ago #4 by DanZilla
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  • Is there anything in the set-up for the site that allows for a "recommendation" for tags on read stories that can then be approved by you or another person administrating them? That could help take the weight off people for going back and re-evaluating all of the previous stories for content...

    I do appreciate the value of tagging stories with possible triggers that people might want to avoid... off the top of my head I can think of several that if "All the King's Horses" was an issue they would probably be an issue as well.

    What triggers are we wanting to implement / warn about? I agree with you in What level of what activity is the right level to call-out... in this case we had a character injured to a degree that it caused them to "lose it" and be traumatized afterward and we had another faced with a tough choice and feel they had betrayed their teammates and it left them traumatized as well... but not everyone that's traumatized is hit with PTSD as a result. We've had quite a few traumatizing events in stories previously and some HAVE resulted in PTSD for the character... do we flag them but not others that were traumatic but didn't

    How about other triggers that might be disturbing or off-putting to readers. Sexual content... Violence (that could be most of the stories)... Sexual violence... Language... Drugs / Alcohol / Tobacco...
    9 years 1 week ago #5 by Arcanist Lupus
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  • Hm....


    Part of what I liked about "All the Kings Horses" is how it defied my expectations of what the Wondercute final would be, but did so fluidly that I was never bothered by a disconnect between what I expected and what I was getting. And I feel that a trigger warning would have diluted that effect by spoiling the "surprise", to the determent of the story.

    Of course, the flip side to this is that surprises in genre are exactly the sort of thing that trigger warnings are supposed to avoid. They are there to telegraph genres so that people who find those genres uncomfortable or harmful can avoid them. But I think that "All the Kings Horses" telegraphs its genre on its own. It builds up to its traumatizing (for the characters, if not the reader) finale slowly but unmistakably. And while the story is on the darker and more violent end of the spectrum of Whateley stories, it isn't over the edge - it's still within the typical Whateley range (at least in my opinion).

    In other words, I think that it is reasonable to expect readers who would be adversely affected by "All the Kings Horses" to have figured out their danger before reaching the parts of the story which would adversely affect them. Additionally, I think that a trigger warning would have been detrimental to the story. Of course, I have zero experience with PTSD and the like, so my opinion has very little weight.


    Rereading my post, I've left out a couple of things, so I'm going to add them here. I consider the potential triggering aspect of this story to be the emotional trauma inflicted on the combatants in the action sequence at the end of the final. I expected the story to be an action comedy, while it turned out to be an horror/action story. It was clear that it was a horror story (to me at least) by midway through the forest search at the latest (long before the action sequence started), with indicators as early as the briefing.



    In sum, I think that our authors are good enough, and Whateley's genres (and its variance within those genres) are well established enough that we do not need a specific system for trigger warnings, especially if setting one up would require a great deal of work on the part of our amazing authors and administrators.

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    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #6 by elrodw
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  • I'm generally skeptical of tags as 'trigger warnings'. Pretty soon, everything will have trigger warnings on it - we won't be able to write or say anything without thinking of the trigger warnings we are obligated under severe PC pressure to include in everything.

    This is a universe of teenage mutant superhero / supervillain characters. Violence is to be expected by anyone who has a clue about the concept of mutant supers. It's also teenagers - so some sexual overtones will be present. Beyond suggestive, yeah, I can see something like an MPAA rating on the stories; Tennyo Goes to Hell being a prime case. But also, MPAA covers violence and Kayda's origin story was pretty brutal in one way - which was her beating and rape.

    I could agree to two ratings and leaving it at that - one for sexual content (PG, R, X) and one for violence (PG, R, X) - where the upper ratings for violence would correspond to either gratuitous violence or things that an average person might find significantly offensive (senseless decapitations, torturing children, rape, etc). Trigger words? We'll NEVER get a complete list people will agree is comprehensive enough.

    That's my opinion, and I'm gonna stick to it.

    (Edited to add:)
    I've read stories on FM, on the TGFiction list, and elsewhere that really hit my own triggers. One I got a couple of pages into, hit the serious issues, and stopped reading. They were free; I stopped reading, and in some cases, let the authors know - politely - that I appreciated their effort in writing, that I've liked other things they've written, but that FOR ME, the story hit some buttons. It's feedback I kept as positive as I could.

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    9 years 1 week ago #7 by MageOhki
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  • Elrodw has my view summarized well

    "Where do we stop?" Sorry, but like Elrodw I've had my 'enough' of various trigger warnings...

    And to put it bluntly, there comes a point we have to tell people "Enough, we're not going to cater to everyone's pet trigger, or pet fear, or ..."

    I don't ask others to cater or not do things that might 'trigger' me. I won't cater to those who do.

    I will be even more honest, there's two stories on this forum, I _cannot_ finish, cannot read, because of my own experiences and history, but I've never asked for the author to remove, rewrite or warn. We write what's required for the story, we aren't being paid for this, we have no need, requirement or obligation to cater to those who can't respect others.

    THAT"S what's trigger warnings are all about, folks. Trying to force others into doing or not doing what the complainers want, no matter rights, laws, obligations, et al.

    No thank you.
    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #8 by Arcanist Lupus
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  • MageOhki wrote: THAT"S what's trigger warnings are all about, folks. Trying to force others into doing or not doing what the complainers want, no matter rights, laws, obligations, et al.


    Trigger warnings have their place*. Everyone should be able to avoid the stories (or pictures, etc) that cause them distress. But a well written story will telegraph its dangers just as effectively as any trigger warning will.



    *Anything in moderation, right?

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    9 years 1 week ago #9 by MageOhki
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  • Lupus: No. they don't. Real Life doesn't come with trigger warnings.


    There's a REASON why I turned down a TENURE TRACK position at Tulane. Which 5 years ago, I wouldn't have.


    And you just hit on why.

    The people who push for 'trigger' warnings? WON"T STOP. Period. They want what they want, they don't know compromise and they are to me, whiny brats who on the first real hardships, will curl up and die.

    Sorry, but this is a _really_ bad topic for me, and one that gets me very very very angry.
    9 years 1 week ago #10 by Domoviye
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  • Right Arcanist, which is why having Elrods idea of a basic rating system would be good. People can see the rating and enter with caution ready to back out if it becomes too tense for them.
    But listing every possible problem is annoying and treats people like babies.
    9 years 1 week ago #11 by Arcanist Lupus
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  • Domoviye wrote: But listing every possible problem is annoying and treats people like babies.


    I think we're all in agreement there.

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    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #12 by Sir Lee
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  • Going back to the story itself... I don't consider "All the king's men" particularly violent of disturbing. Yes, stuff happens, and characters react badly to it. But really... is it any more violent than some of the things that happened to Kayda? Or to what happened inside NORAD C? Or a few things that involved Jade? Or the cold-blooded murders by CORE? Or Migraine casually attempting to kill Kaiju? I don't think so.

    It's an interpretation of a genre where violent scenes WILL happen. If somebody thinks that's too much for them, well, the Saturday Morning cartoon versions of the genre offer a less violent interpretation.

    I think something that falls well outside the usual limits for the canon stories (like "Tennyo Goes to Hell") may merit a warning. But a permanent rating/label system? I don't think so. There is not that much variation between stories, usually.

    I bothered to track down the posting at BCTS. My take on it is... that the OP doesn't really understand the difference between posting a story in a single-purpose, single-universe, curated site (as this one) and on a more generic, less-focused site as BCTS or Fictionmania. Generic sites have wildly variable types of content, with wildly variable levels of violence, sex etc, and ratings are necessary for them. Not so much in a dedicated site.

    Going back to the reference media, which is comic books... no, Marvel and DC do not stamp a rating on every cover, because, while there is some violence and sexuality in their comics, the expected level of violence and smut is fairly reliable -- you won't get explicit sex scenes or graphic disembowelment in Spider-Man. You might get some of it in more mature-geared imprints like DC's Vertigo, but that's not really marketed as being the same thing.

    That is pretty much how it goes for Whateley; there is some violence, but the level of it is somewhat predictable. The authors haven't spent the last ten years writing about puppies and rainbows; if you read any of it, you shouldn't have been caught by surprise by "All the King's Horses."

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    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #14 by Phoenix Spiritus
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  • I think some ratings advise would be as far as we want to go.

    One thing to consider is Whateley's story universe 'description' may be read a little differently to the way we know it to be. After all a "Mutant High School in a comic book universe" may make people believe it's a 'children appropriate' story universe, when we all know it's a little more mature then that.

    Then there are a few stories (like we are talking about) that are very definitely 'adult content' (not just talking about the later Jobe stories, but the earlier Kayda ones, the ones dealing with Jamie's death, and a few of the combat ones). This need a bit more calling out so even the regular readers think before they start reading them.

    I'm not sure of the US ratings system, but in the Australian ratings, the base line rating wouldn't be 'PG' like people keep saying, it would be more like 'MA15+' with a very few making it to 'R18+'.

    I think what we should do is have a "Base" rating for all stories, and then for the ones that even when writing we know 'this ones a bit more' we have a 'warning' rating that tells readers to be careful about this story.
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    9 years 1 week ago #15 by Astrodragon
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  • I really dont want trigger warnings; I agree with the earlier posters, they just get more and more until we spend more time worrying about them than writing. And we'll never please the precious snowflakes anyway.

    Having just finished the first part of DragonFyres origin, I do wonder if I should put a small warning on it. After all, there are parts which arent pleasant, but they are integral to the story, they aren't gratuitous.

    But which comics are we looking at as our guideline? Even Marvel and DC can get pretty violent in some of their main titles, and the independents can be much worse.

    But if we stop people off reading some stories, what happens when they read a subsequent one which connects back to that? Its going to get very confusing. Look at Kayda, without the early violence and rape scenes her later behaviour makes no sense at all.

    Personally I feel we should treat the readers as adult, and only warn about the occasional story which goes way over the norm, and this should be obvious in the comments when we edit them. If you manage to squick me, I'll agree a warning is necessary.

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  • The problems with trigger warnings, is what sets one person off, won't set off another and vice versa.

    The problem with ratings, such as Elrod suggested, is who decides on what the rating is? How much time will the authors spend discussing whether a story is R rated, as opposed to what the next plot points should be?

    A generic statement on the Front Page and story pages saying "Stories may contain, Sex, Violence, and other situations, read at your own discretion," might be a good solution.

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    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #17 by E M Pisek
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  • Another problem is continuity. If an individual is following a story line and it crosses over to another story (as is done here many times) how is that going to be adhered to?

    Look back at the movie theaters. Before, there was a time when there was only 4 ratings. Over time those ratings in my opinion have become watered down. Many have even called for a newer system to put in place as the industry has pushed it to the limits in some cases. What we consider PG-13 now would have garnered an R rating easily.

    My point is that 'who' decides what level will also be used? My interpretation of what is violent may not be yours. This also applies to writing. Many are still being challenged in the courts today and will continue to do so in the future.

    MPA rating system

    And then what about if you get different readers from other countries? There are stories that are being posted that limits the readership as its printed in a language that many can't read.

    TV is now going the same way with its own rating system. Look at what's displayed before a show is aired. How long with that go before parents or viewers complain that they had a 'trigger' effect or their child was exposed to unnecessary violence or content? I can already say that its happening.

    TV rating system

    What was G rated years ago is no longer such now. Look at the violence that is used in just the movie "The Lion King". We watched and let our minds show how Simba's dad was killed. It wasn't hidden.

    And many adults let their kids watch such movies as R rated ones without a thought.

    My point is books are now being looked at on having a rating system. And that is one muddied area to be sure and where does it stop?

    Even a simple ratings system used here that has been suggested will fall under scrutiny and what starts off simple then gets relooked over again because you will always have someone who objects to it no matter how well intentional it started out as. And you end up caving in without thinking about it because the argument comes across as being sound. And when one gets their way then another will push and so on and so on, hence my saying to use a broad heading of 'Most stories can contain violence, sex and vulgarity. You have been warned." So not to punish the author into revealing unintentionally to the readers their plot devises.

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    9 years 1 week ago #18 by Astrodragon
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  • Maybe a general warning.

    These stories are not aimed at children, and some may contain violence, sex and other adult situations and themes.

    Mind, we could put the same warning on Bambi...:P

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    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #19 by MageOhki
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  • Legally, all we have to do is state as a general, or specific fics which fics are considered adult. Period.


    ANYTHING else, is catering to people who don't have the courage to tell us to our faces, or those who _are not paying us_. We're doing this for free, we're only bound by the law regarding adult material. While possibly using a MPAA or like rating system is a idea, it's not legally required. If we chose to do that much, it's because we want to, and we'll put it on the author and or another to make that call. If people don't like it?

    It's not like they _paid_ for it, is it?

    I don't cater to special snowflakes, unless I'm paid to. Nor should we unless paid to do so. All of us, writers and like, are _giving_ of our time and effort. If people don't like it? Sorry, I can only please so many people, and I'm not going to disregard my morals, ethics and obligations as I see them, for those who think the world should be a bubble wrapped place.


    We have _no_. I repeat. NO ethical or moral obligation in this case. If people think otherwise...
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  • Whateley has a general 'vibe', a certain feel for the majority of the stories, a 'trusted' feel to the way the stories will be.

    All of us know that there are some stories that hit quite a bit harder then the expected, nothing wrong with that, but from previous 'warnings', and comments from the various authors, there doesn't seem to be any debate which stories they are, mostly the author when writing it knows that some warnings are desired.

    Just some tag to warn people about the more hard hitting stories should be fine, and I doubt it would be too big a burden, the authors will warn each other about their own stories anyway, it's just a way of getting that same warning to the readers without spoiling things with "Authors notes" or big verbose warnings before the story.
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  • my view on this is simple. I post at BCTS and don't use the majority of tags there. I feel they are a bit too defining.

    As for trigger warnings? Well, if people on the internet reading fiction for free actually need those to beware what they are reading... then beware, I'm dark as hell when allowed to cut loose, and all that's coming.

    The original poster probably reads fictionmania without a problem, though, knowing our luck.

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  • I'm not in favour of tags for each story, it could quickly become far too complex and restrictive even ignoring the 'Spoiler' effect. However, I do think that a very generic warning on the front page should be considered. That suggested by ElrodW might be a good basis for such a warning.

    elrodw wrote: This is a universe of teenage mutant superhero / supervillain characters. Violence is to be expected by anyone who has a clue about the concept of mutant supers. It's also teenagers - so some sexual overtones will be present.


    Over the last few decades there has been a distinct move away from encouraging people to think for themselves and instead to wrap them up in metaphorical cotton wool or, as an author over in the Chakat Universe is fond of saying, 'People keep trying to child-proof the world while forgetting to world-proof the child'.

    Let's not start something here that could end up strangling the efforts of the authors that we love reading.

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    9 years 1 week ago #23 by Kristin Darken
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  • The majority of these posts run pretty close to my own feelings on the subject and about what I expected from the active, vocal part of the community... that said, a couple notes:

    IF we were to implement a tag system, I believe I could come up with a way that they were invisible by default. That people who were concerned about potential triggers could have a way to toggle them on/off at the top of a story without them being visible to everyone and causing spoilers. So don't worry about that factor as an issue.

    I'm more concerned about SCOPE: what triggers do we try to account for? violence? difficult to do in a genre based on conflict. sexual stuff? WA by nature of our coming at things from a TG fiction standpoint tends to handle issues of sex far more often than a typical high school drama might. Not unrealistically... but even just talking about TG transformations could be problematic for someone who is not coming at the stories from the perspective of being TG or a TG supporter. And a lot of 'mainstream' folks could be upset by having teens consciously aware of being gay or lesbian. That's ALL about sex. Rape? Murders/deaths of friends? Ya... those can be upsetting to a lot of people. But how do we tag those?

    And DEPTH: Do tag every story that has Kayda in it because she was raped? Or just the stories that specifically contain the scene where she was raped or a flashback to it? Or any time the subject is rape as part of the story - such as when she is working with Sky and Cav? If we are tagging violence, do we have separate scales for emotional conflict and physical? Do we have to have levels of violence to show the difference between a sparring match that gets out of hand and a fight that ends with someone in the hospital?


    I appreciate some tagging systems, and I do check them on sites like Fictionmania and BCTS... not because I worry about running across something that will squick me... but because I have some categories of things that I don't enjoy and would rather not waste my time reading - forced fem stuff, for instance, doesn't generally appeal to me. I 'want' to be female, and I don't see being turned female to be a punishment. At the same time, I very much dislike the idea of someone being 'made' TG... and that's exactly what you get if you take a non TG male and force him into being a woman.

    But that's useful because those are open sites and any given story has a pretty wild range of potential quality, style, subject, and issues... the Crystal Hall has some range within the genre, but that range is generally not one that changes a lot. About half the stories could be tagged mild violence/bullying. and another 20% with violence resulting in injury. About 20% of stories could be tagged with mild adult/sexual subjects with another 10% with serious adult/sexual subjects. Probably 5% of stories deal with some degree of rape. 5% with some degree of murder/death. 5% with suicide.

    *shrug*

    I'm still undecided what to do. Feel free to continue the conversation in the meantime. :)

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    9 years 1 week ago - 9 years 1 week ago #24 by E M Pisek
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  • This is, as we say, a free debate in that we are able to give our opinion without being ostracized for it.

    Overall the ultimate decision will be yours for you are the one who as the caretaker, governess or whatever, is the one who will lead us in that decision once made.

    I don't save it's easy. Its not. Whatever you decide and although I don't have stories here I will support whatever decision you make as with how its implemented for hopefully one day if I'm good enough I hope to post one even if it is fanfic.

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    Of course that may be when I hit 64. :-p

    I feel like a lemming or Mr. Obvious.

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    9 years 1 week ago #25 by Arcanist Lupus
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  • My only thought on scope and depth is that the most potentially distressful content in "All the Kings Horses" is not the actual violence involved, but the mental trauma inflicted on the involved parties. I'm not sure exactly how that would be described as far as a tag goes, but still. Food for thought.

    "Shared pain is lessened; shared joy, increased — thus do we refute entropy." - Spider Robinson
    9 years 1 week ago - 8 years 11 months ago #26 by Light
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    9 years 1 week ago #27 by Kristin Darken
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  • Exactly.

    When in school for theatre, we were required on numerous occasions to discuss or write out our artistic aesthetic. While I used more eloquent phrasing, most of the time my comments could be boiled down to the idea that "if I'm not managing to offend someone, I'm not succeeding as an artist"

    Meaning, of course, in more modern language... that the whole basis for art is to trigger people. The Greeks tried to create plays that were so tragic that everyone would be appalled, horrified, and shocked that such a terrible end could happen out of simple choices and desires that any human being might make/have. This created such a huge emotional reaction that it gave them a form of release (catharsis) from their normal worldly cares.

    The artist in me says that we should avoid warning people... that our goal should be the opposite. That if we want to help create healthy human beings, we should be purposely writing to trigger people. That by exposure, they will come to cope with those things that currently cripple their actions and hinder them emotionally.

    But I also know that the Greeks had a tighter community... and if someone pushed into darkness in an attempt to reach catharsis didn't come out the other side 'better'... they wouldn't be alone, without support or someone to help find the way back. All too many people who would be concerned about being triggered today have no one to go to in the event that it goes wrong and they are stuck in the darkness.

    Thus the indecision.

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    9 years 6 days ago - 9 years 6 days ago #28 by E M Pisek
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  • Some may not see it this way, but I found something that Stephen King just wrote when it concerns his chance at getting a foul ball.

    To me the analogy kinda fits in that when we come here to read we have to come to expect the unexpected. So as I don't want to be accused of theft here is the article as I found it.

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    We can only go so far in having others protecting us from danger. Eventually we won't even come for by having others protect us from ourselves we lose the chance at taking risks by over protecting ourselves or even learning to control what comes at us because we will want others to protect us from ourselves to where its not worth even to show up.

    What is - was. What was - is.
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